Dave & Amber Hill

Long Time No See

2011-01-25T03:40:00.000-08:00

Haha, so if the only way you ever received updates about my life was via the blog, you are probably wondering how long can a person possibly be pregnant, and you probably didn't hear I had a baby with extra parts. So to clear the confusion- I have a (very cute*) little 7 and a half month old boy.... not named Alexis. His name is Bentley and as with most babies, he learns new tricks about every week. This week we are discovering the world from the viewpoint on all fours! Although, so far he's more prone to use his tip toes instead of his knees. There is no forward motions as of yet, but he does freeze in amazement at his accomplishment, and then promptly cry because of his frustration.
So the rest of the update: we are living in California!!! I really really don't know why it took so long, but we finally said to-heck with the cold and joined the rest of the wise in the warmth. Ahh, it is lovely! Again, I am amazed with how long we actually stayed in Idaho. Well, you know, we gave it a hearty shot. We tried to make it there, but you can only endure so much abuse from the weather and your employers before you are driven out by your basic need to survive. So in our pursuit of happiness, we have found a place just like home (well actually it is home) in my parents house- yep back to the roots, and we are getting cozy! Haha, we have had to make many adjustments, as have my family members, but in order to save for a place of our own, we must do what we must. We love my parents for their patience and kindness.
I finally have had my stars align, and since Jesus loves me, I now have (almost) everything I could ask in a nursing job! Benefits, a reliable schedule, a place in the call rotation, my coworkers love me, I can really go on and on. I only say almost because Med Surg (although it has many benefits) is not my ending destination. So after my experience here, perhaps I can settle in OB somewhere. For now, I am super happy with the blessings that have been showered on me.
They don't stop there though, Dave also has employment! Sears has hired him to the automotive department! He has a good job there, and good people to work with. It is so nice to have the peace of mind that employment can bring. We have been on both sides, and for sure I am grateful for work! As far as big picture goes, Dave is looking forward to (hopefully) attending Cal Poly so that he can really get deep into the Electrical Engineering carreer path!
We are learning that really no one wants to hear about us, but that Bentley is the topic of interest, so we will refocus on him. He is learning to sleep through the night, at least we think so. Rather, we are learning to let him cry so that eventually he can sleep through the night. Not as easy as it sounds. But someone said Bentley had me wipped, and I thought Oh HECK no! I'm the mom!! So from then on, we make sure he is safe, then put in the earplugs! Its been nice! And he still loves us in the morning, so it must be ok! He makes us laugh with all his reactions to the whole new world of pureed foods full of new textures and flavors. He just loves it! So much he is really frustrated when we don't replace the food filled spoon fast enough! He has somewhere picked up the head shake, so he is constantly telling us no, although it doesn't fit the situations. So we are working on the yes nod. So far, he just stops in serious contemplation and then focuses on something easier.
He can professionally roll front to back and back to front now, so he is no longer safe ever and now requires more diligent monitoring. He can also proficiently place his binki in his mouth and hold his own bottle. And he can pick up a cheerio with either hand and then shove his fist inside his mouth and hope to catch it. Sometimes it works. He's got the cutest nose scrunch but we can't tell what he does it for yet, and he's got the most serious of furrows to his brow. He's a rather serious kid (go figure) but he will on occasion bless us with a giggle, and then we all work really hard to look as rediculous as we can to entice another giggle out of him. It's also very fun to just watch each other in this process. The other thing he is amazing at is the poop face. He cracks us up. Again- so serious! Dang that boy can stink up a room though! Whew! Our son is so impressive. We are totally taking advantage of letting him know that he is the cutest son we've ever had. We know that will have to stop at some point, but for now it is true and we are totally allowed to say so! Dave is still the best husband I've ever had too. I will always be able to say that.
I don't have the opportunity to put pictures on this one right now, but my facebook does have some new photos if you're interested. Anyway, till we meet again- sorry it's been so long. I can't promise any time frame on the next one either. Love you all, dear family and friends!

BOL Update!!! (Big-O-Long)

2010-05-13T10:59:00.001-07:00

YAY! I am full term today! I know that may confuse some of you who are thinking "But your due date isn't till June 3rd!". I have news: after 37 weeks the baby's lungs have fully developed and if there aren't any further complications, they won't send her straight to the NICU like they would have if I had her last week! That's good news to me!
Dave and I are packed and ready to go any time now! I have officially started 'nesting' and cloroxed everything that would stand still yesterday, wiped the walls from at least 4 feet and down, cleaned the baseboards, dusted everything, and sterilized until I was pooped. I still have the bathrooms and a few more things to tackle. I knew that this happened later in the pregnancy, and somehow thought I would be the exception to avoid it but no. I woke up on my day off and had some strange superbug vision I didn't go to bed with; suddenly I could see every bacteria and dirt particle crawling all over everything! Moms are amazing! Part of this might be due to my term-ness, part might be due to the subconscious awareness that these 4 days of being off work are my last until I deliver (with I think 2 or 3 exceptions scattered here and there) because my schedule says I work and work and work, and it's not over till the fat lady screams! Example: I work the 1st and 2nd of June from 7-7 both days and then my due date is the 3rd. I know I sound crazy, but am I really supposed to be sitting at home thinking about it? Going over and over in my mind every impending detail? No way, distract the crap out of me and I'll face the music when it comes!
Speaking of all the gory details, I think I'd prefer to just skip the messy parts. I'm not talking about Labor itself exactly, I am just saying that I would be happy as a clam if I would just contract and then go to the hospital. I'd be just fine if I could skip the water breaking and any mucous (I don't want to see it, I don't want to know when it's out, I don't want to have anything to do with it!) I have been thinking: there's no great place other than the hospital for the water to break. At home, ew no, I don't want to clean it up. Perhaps I could be ok with it in the shower or toilet (contained is good, I think) and an easy wash off. Grocery store? NO. Oh at work could be funny as heck, but still ew. And I don't want to have to finish charting with a patient wristband and belly monitors on. Not a good time.
Some people experience a false breakeage of the waters called "maternal loss of urine", you guessed it, moms pee their pants. Now Dave has really put some good thinking into this and has decided that if I "lose" my urine in a patients room, I should simply pretend my water broke, and get out in the hall, change into the hospital scrubs, and quickly request an assignment switch with a savvy coworker who will tell the patient again that I am now in Labor and Delivery with my water broke. You never can think of the good things to do or say until after the event unless you are prepared. Thanks sweetie, if that happens I will do it! It seems better than fessing up to my patient that I just wet myself. Again, ew.
I know God's in control and all, but I wish we could put our 2 cents in about when would be a good time to schedule this shindig. I'm thinkin the 3rd (the due date) is right in the middle of Dave's Midterms and Finals, so not really a good time. If I go this week, Mom and Dad are still gone, not a good time. However, there is a long weekend between these events that would be great: If I had the baby Friday night before Memorial Day, we'd be set! That would be a good time. Oh well, it's out there. God knows the desires of my heart, its kind of out of my hands now.
Here's a good one: my nightmares. Let me background by saying that I refuse to deliver at the hospital in Rexburg. I work at EIRMC in Idaho Falls (30 minutes away) and WILL deliver there. So I keep having nightmares that 1) I delivery by my self in the car, 2) I have no epidural or pain control at all (of which I am a big fan) and 3) she comes out a HE! Ah NUTS! heehee. So I'm hoping thats just some big joke and that we won't really have to take our son home in a dress.
I haven't posted her name either, sorry: Alexis Paloma Hill. Paloma means Dove in Spanish, and we're hoping she will be a peaceful child. Why do I hear laughing in my head? That might end up the butt of jokes as the family asks how we slept at the camping trip. Yeah we know. Again, we are hoping, and we are also very aware that God has a sense of humor. At least her name isn't Paloma Grace. That really would be a set up. If this baby has been naughty and comes out a boy, the name is to be announced (as soon as we figure it out) and he will be grounded big time!
I would post maternity pictures for you, but they are on their way to me so I don't yet have them. In the meantime, you can visit photosbyjanese.com and see how fat I am. Thanks Auntie!
She did a great job. Except for the photo-op, I have attempted to keep this fatty out of the photo frame unless the need for editing is minimal. Wish I looked as good as Shawntel but I don't, sorry 'bout it.
Anyway, as the days get closer and the house cleaner, the husband and wife get scared-er! Every evening ends with an: "I can't believe we're about to be parents!" spoken by a wide-eyed one of us. We've so far enjoyed our quiet home (except our elephant heard of upstairs neighbors) and one of us (not it) has enjoyed his restful nights. Our world is about to take a flip and we are well aware of it. I guess we have no option, there's really no way to turn back now, or put her back once she comes, right? Yeah I didn't think so.
We're also getting excited to meet this little one. Its a bit strange that we've been more than connected at the hip and neither one of us knows what the other one looks like! She knows I'm kinda dark but pink sometimes, but other than that, I just taste funny to her. I can imagine she looks like us, but what features and what family traits she'll inherit we are clueless. Dave and I have a wide spread of physical family characteristics she could be: Brown, green, blue, grey, or hazel eyed. Brunette, blonde, or red. Pretty much her skin WILL be white, we know that much! Tannable? Thats questionable. Freckled? Perhaps. Iam assuming her ears will come from daddy. He's got unique ears that our nephews have inherited, I think they're cute, so I hope she does. Pretty much it looks like someone took their fingernail to the back of his earlobe, so there's a long curved crease. Dave won't know whats coming when everyone is checking out his ears from now on, hee hee hee!
I'm pretty anxious about my mom not being there. Growing up you have your ideas of what your wedding day will be like, etc. Well whenever I've thought of delivering my babies, I never ever ever assumed mom wouldn't be by my side. It just made sense, she's my mom, and she's a delivery nurse, and she's my best friend, so of course she'd be there. I guess I never factored in the fact that she might be in a different state, or maybe even a different continent as the case may be. Hmm. That might put a damper on things. She's kinda irreplaceable if you know what I mean. Love her. Luckily I should have my sweetheart by my side (I hope he's not in the middle of a final when I need to get ahold of him!). If he is, I've arranged a fast car with lights from the Chalmers- awesome people some of you might know. We had a bbq with Kent and Stacie last weekend and they said they'd rescue me if I needed it. Always good to have a back up plan.
So is this enough of an update for now? I told you I have a 4-day stretch of days off, so I told mom I'd update my blog for the first time in ages. I know, I am not so good at it, but you all know I am a busy woman, so don't expect these super frequently and just appreciate them when they come! Thanks for your love and especially your patience. No, especially your love, I need that more. We'll post again when we have pictures, either of the belly or the baby- we shall see!!! Wish us luck, and please keep us in your prayers!

YAY!

2010-01-22T08:12:00.000-08:00

It's a GIRL!!!! We tried another ultrasound and doc confirmed that it's going to be a baby girl! Dave and I are so excited! We don't have a great picture of it, but we checked and checked and triple checked and the three lines came up every time. Now, I know- there are three lines that indicate umbilical cord too, BUT as the Doc said, "Its either female parts or cord but it's definitely not a boy! If it is, he should be embarassed!" So I told this lil Guida inside me she's grounded if she comes out a boy and surprises us all!

The instruction is now to save the tags on whatever we buy for her... Just In Case!

ALSO...
Dave and I are once again excited to announce that we are an auntie and an uncle! Brian and Ashley Hill had their baby boy on Thursday Jan 21st at 6:24 pm and he is 5lbs, 10oz and I think 17 inches long. He definitely has characteristics of mom and dad and has decided to take the quiet route for now (he doesn't cry much). He is very sweet! We are so happy to welcome him to our family!

In the meantime...
Dave is doing the school thing and could use any prayers you can offer to stay on top of his work and understand his new major's subjects, and he continues to work for BYU-I. I am doing the work thing, still doing two RN jobs and getting closer every month to paying off some of these stinking bills! Ay the responsibility of adulthood! My belly is getting bigger and almost to the point that I can take pictures of it and not look simply fat. Dave likes to oggle it every once in a while and he swears "it wasn't that big yesterday!" Haha, its a good thing I'm pregnant otherwise I'd have to whack him!

Anyway...
We love you all and are excited to share this eventful life with those we love! OH! NAMES!!!
Ok, well we are debating between two names for this lil girlie inside me:
Aislynn Renee (like Face, or Ace-Lynn) or Alexis Paloma (Paloma is the Spanish word for dove).
It might come down to picking it out after she is born to see which fits her best because they're both favorites and we can't decide yet. Wish us luck!

Oh Baby!

2010-01-19T07:52:00.001-08:00

Dave and I are dying to know whether this baby has a pink or blue belly button. After hoping for so long it was a girl, we did an ultrasound at 15 weeks and had suspicions it was a boy. So patiently we waited to do another one until after 20 weeks to double check. In the meantime, we wrapped our minds around the idea of having a baby boy. Now that we wouldn't mind either, we did another ultrasound yesterday (Jan 18) and we STILL can't tell what on earth we are having!!! I clearly saw female 3/4 times we checked, but that fourth time Doc said he thought he might have seen a male part. In truth, the legs were crossed and it was all difficult to see anyway.
We have plans to try yet again on Thursday, so wish us luck! We will share the news when we have a "better picture" of what we're having!

May I Have Your Attention Please?

2009-12-24T10:25:00.001-08:00

Long time, no post, I know, I KNOW! Sorry, life's been KRAZIE!

This morning on the Eve of Christmas, we each had to reveal exactly how much weight we have lost for our biggest loser family competition. Drum roll please!

And the winner is.... WENDI!

Beginning weight was 153.5, today was 136.5 a total of 17lbs losing a complete 11.1%!

Starting from the top:

Big Steve (dad) 193.5 -> 176 totaling 17.5lbs = 9.0%

David Hill (pookie) 196.5 -> 181.5 totaling 15lbs = 7.6%

Branden (ole red who was told he couldn't participate) 143.5 -> 134 totaling 9.5lbs = 6.6%

Steven Brian (le younger) 181.5 -> 171 totaling 10.5lbs = 5.8%

Amber Hill (el prego who has a 'handicap'/disqualification thanks to Dave) 173.5 -> 164 totaling 9.5 lbs = 5.5%

Alisha (blonde beauty) 143.5 -> 139 totaling 4.5lbs = 3.1%

Total pounds lost = 83.5 lbs!!!

Total percentage lost = 48.7% !!!!!

*** Side note: there have been instances where we weighed less than we do today and if that were the case, Big Steve, Wendi, and Amber all would have been hard competition for the top! So on we go looking forward to another weigh in the summer (after I have a really big amount of weight loss) when we will again compete for the prize. Of course, we all walk out winners as you can tell, now that we have shed pounds and are much lighter, healthier and happier! Perhaps next summer's photo shoots won't be so depressing!

Merry Christmas from all of us! We will likely post again soon!

Yay, Baby Update!

2009-11-20T17:51:00.000-08:00

This is Baby Hill- no gender is known yet (unless someone reading this can see it and I can't). We should find out what it is in January or February. This is our baby's first picture- taken at 10 weeks, 0 days. We saw hiccuping and spontaneous movement. For those not used to seeing an ultrasound, there is a darker oval shape in the middle of the photo, the head is the white on the left inside the oval, the body curves to the right from there, with a nub for a right arm visible, and a circle from the bottom of the baby making the right foot (we assume). It is a profile shot.

These two photos were taken at 11weeks, 4days and I performed the abdominal ultrasound myself. Doc was out of town and as Dave said it: While the Doctor's away, the Nurses will play! This active lil one jumped from side to side on my uterus like a trampoline. It is very active! However, when Dave and I were watching it, there would be periods when it would stop and rest... what did I do? I gave a really loud HA! and the baby sprang right back into life! It responds to me! YAY!

This is showing the head on the right side and the lighter white circles are all four arms and legs! We see strong heartbeats and it's mouth moving, arms and legs waving, spinal curling and extension- wow! In this one, you can actually see the lens of the eye, as indicated by the lighter formed circles in the eye sockets that are dark. The nasal and oral structures are also apparent!

This lime is what babycenter.com says a 12 week old fetus should measure up to. It is about a 1/2 ounce weight, and over 2 inces long from crown of head to base of rump. What a big baby! My weeks rotate every Thursday, in case you were curious!

Not an ultrasound, but this is what we all look like today- my belly just looks fat to those who don't already know I'm pregnant, so it's not so cute. Dave likes it though- he'll stop me at various times and stare at my belly and say "Awww! Look at you, Lil' Momma!" and then get a little misty eyed and hug me. I love that.

We are a Happy Family!

Conference with the Cousins

2009-10-28T20:02:00.000-07:00

Ready or Not, Here We Go!

2009-10-06T11:37:00.000-07:00

So I'm not able to participate in the Bennett Biggest Loser challenge anymore because WE'RE EXPECTING!!! It's crazy, and unexpected, but there's no turning back from here! I took a test the day after my period was supposed to come and there's no question- two dark pink lines quickly showed that I am pregnant! We are a month along, and due June 7th, 2010. We would appreciate your prayers for a healthy baby and easy pregnancy, and perhaps some relief in stress would be awesome! We find out the gender December 1st and we will keep updating everyone as best we can. I don't want to post any belly photos yet because at this point, it's all mine, and I don't look as cute and little as Janese and Rachel! They will be coming though! Thanks for all the love and support, it means the world to us!

Always Something New!

2009-10-06T07:59:00.000-07:00

So I know I've been slacking on the September post- and like I do in my journal, I always promise to do better next time. In reality, I just do it when I do actually catch a moment in time and when I'm thinking about it. Those two things don't always happen simultaneously, hence the slackage!

September was lots of fun and I will try to post pictures later (I'm at work right now waiting for the day to start rolling). We started off with a visit from family and friends when Alisha moved up to Idaho to begin her growing up as a college student. Mom, Alisha, McKenzie, and our friend Sara came and enjoyed the beauties of Idaho, Wyoming, and Montana. We travelled to Yellowstone National Park and enjoyed watching The Secret Garden at the Playmill, then to Jackson Hole for some good entertainment and food at the Bar J Wranglers. It was sure good to have everyone here and we all appreciate very much the generosity and love that our wonderful parents always share with us.

I also had a birthday shout HOORAY! I turned 22 on Sept 12th and had a great time spending the evening celebrating the engagement of a dear friend, and then some fine dining at Texas Roadhouse Grill with the Paul and Pymm families, Steven, Alisha, and Carly Schneider, and of course my wonderful husband, Dave.

The rest of the month was filled with beginning a new nursing job at a doctors office as well as working at Women's Center at EIRMC, getting a new calling as Primary President, and trying to stay afloat in my nursing class for my Bachelors. Dave has been desparately seeking employment and could really use your prayers on his behalf.

We saw the generosity of good people one Saturday as we were invited to pick as many red and russet potatoes as we wanted on the Foster's farm. When they are finished with their harvest and have an excess, they open it up to the community to share the bounty. Hundreds of people and families were out gathering their potatoes for their years supply at no cost. The Foster's even dug them up for everyone. I learned what it means to obtain food by the sweat of my brow. I felt like I'd truly had an "Idaho experience". We spent that afternoon picking tomatoes and cucumbers with Bernice (Grandma) Hill and Merlin (Grandpa) let us take a spin on his 4 wheeler- way fun! Dave was even nice enough to let me drive it most of the time.

Blessings have been poured out on our family. Dave and I are both healthy and happy. We are learning and growing as individuals and as a couple and we are enjoying it. We are learning gospel truths it seems every day, that the Lord puts us through famine so we can be grateful for the feasts in our lives. We are enjoying many feasts these days, and we continue to endure our famines in faith. The Lord has always been there to support us and give aid, without exception. Always.

Eat, Drink And Be Merry For Tomorrow, We DIET

2009-08-21T19:35:00.000-07:00

Hi. My name is Amber Hill and I've been addicted to food for like, 22 years. I love food- all kinds. I love the taste, the smell, the texture. I do not however love the way food makes me feel. Nothing will bring me around to a shocking and cruel reality than to see pictures of myself, and especially if I am in a bathingsuit, well maybe that and the constant inquires as to whether or not I'm expecting or how far along I am. Oh and sweet children who ask when I am going to have my baby boy. After coming home from the Ski trip and gagging over the slideshows the Bennett and Hill families have decided that enough is way more than enough. We will follow the examples of those who have gone before us, and do our own Biggest Loser challenge. On August 9th, 2009, we each weighed in and decided that it was far beyond time to change, but never too late to start.

Dad- 193.5

Mom- 153.3

Steven- 181.5

Dave- 196.5

Amber- 173.5

Alisha- 143.5

Branden- 143.5

Talk about hard to swallow!

We could use all the encouragement we can get. Many of us have already lost over 10 lbs since then. I weighed in this morning at 160.6, and it is the 21st of August (1 1/2 weeks since we weighed in). Dave has also made it 12lbs and counting. We will weigh back in for the final time just prior to Christmas whenever we are all back together again to see who has 'won' the challenge, even though we will all walk away winners.

Thank you Shawntel, Aaron, and Ashley for showing us it CAN be done!

Adventures in California!!! (In reverse because we're all a little !drawkcab)

2009-08-21T17:45:00.001-07:00

Cali Baby!

We spent the morning with mom as we dropped some of the girls from the ward off at Girls Camp, Alisha as their adult leader, and we stole away to the tide pools in Cambria. Not much to see at high tide but it's still very pretty, and great for pictures!

This is one of my most cherished friends- in her 90's and still as sassy as they come!

-Edith Hawthorne

WILDE REUNION-SKI TRIP 2009

Branden Bennett, Jordan Wilde, and Mitchell Vonasek riding the waves on their tubes playing King of The Tube. Jordan held on to Branden's tube and let go of his- and stayed like that for minutes! Mitchell- yeah, he didn't enjoy the ride so much, as obvious by the faces he made!

Oh those boys!

Kory, Dave, and Branden before they got thrashed.

Dave and Branden returning to the boat after a rough go at the tubing. Dave's first experiences at water sports left a good mark, he had a ton of fun.

If you were there you might have seen beach babes such as this. The little kidlets provided the adults with some hearty laughter throughout the trip. Honey, Shaelyn, and AJ could all be seen trying to figure out the whole "But I gotta go potty now mommy" situation, and Mason calling people "Dawg" was too much!

You also might have seen this type of activity.

Dave tried his hand at wakeboarding for the first time. I think it was his pride that got in the way. Shoot.

Or maybe it was just his first time, or MAYBE there was also a little technical difficulty???

The Newlywed, Not-so-Newlywed, and the Not-Wed games were a riot. Thanks to the Paul family who were the inspiration for us to do this, Steven for being MC, and Mom Bennett for the prizes! Another big thank you to all who participated for your good humor, and also to whoever brought the music of Christmas to the world- we have been blessed because of you!

"On the first day of Christmas...."

"I'm dreaming of a white.... relative?"

The world may never be the same.

Le Stud.

Dad Bennett showing the ladies his skills on Ladies Morning.

Cuz girls (and boys) just wanna have fun!

The wind-blown women

McKenzie Vonasek sporting her skills and new style of suit. She is the guru of the

underwear-as-swimsuit fad. We'll soon see this go wild across the country.

You gotta do what you've gotta do, and if you gotta wakeboard,

you gotta wakeboard in whatever you've gottavailable.

Our fantastic boat driver

*Thanks Dad for all the fun!*

The Momma- her beautiful roostertail and gracious, yet unintentionally dramatic fall.

Eh, me. Glad I still got it.

Shaelyn Vonasek also with her mad skills.

Skinny mini Ashley Cardon out first on the glasslike water.

Ladies Day is the best!

Branden posing in his jammies.

Steven and Dave filling the innertubes, getting ready for a full week of fun, family, and frivolities.

Our three Biggest Looser winners

Well done all of you- you're and inspiration to all of us!

Dave making fresh-picked, fresh-sqeezed orange juice. Yummy!

This is one of the best things about going home!

Honey and Mason playing ping-pong in the garage

Grandma and Grandpa Bennett watching the big game.

Dave and Dad vs Alisha and Steven

We spent 3 days at Disneyland and California Adventure- OH SO FUN! We loved it! I had dreams about it for weeks, Dave had never been, and the whole family was there! We even shared the time with the Hockmans and the Corin and Tina Wilde families.

Us, Walt, Mickey, and Cindy's house.

Dave and I on the ferris wheel at California Adventures.

The Mr. and Mrs. Mouse

I tried to get everyone- we are on the submarine ride for Ninding Femo.

Mason Hockman is super strong!

"Ith bigger than cointh!"

"Go Switch-Flipper, GO!"

"Flip 'em gooooood SWITCH FLIPPER!"

Honey and Larry Hockman enjoying themselves at the show where we found out that Country + Rap = Crap, Tigger bounced on his tail to aviod stepping on Pooh, and that women in certain shirts should not be allowed to take a bow.

Billy Hill and the Hillbillies- of no relation, I am sure.

Waiting for the Tiki Room

The Goofs that we love!

Mom, Dad, and Alisha in lines at Disneyland

Branden, Dave, Amber, Alisha, Dad, Steven, and the Snake. Indiana Jones is a fantastic ride- so long as you don't get the rickety one!!!

Ah- My love!

Alisha and Honey-bunny

YAY FOR DISNEYLAND!!! SOOOO FUN!

Fourth of July fun!

2009-07-11T11:22:00.001-07:00

The fourth started out with a nice relaxing bbq at Rigby Lake with one of our favorite families (the Paul fam) and one of our favorite brothers- Steven. We didn't get in the frigid glacier water but we enjoyed a delicious feast of bratwurst and burgers, threw around a frisbee, and...

...relaxed. This is Dave, Amber, Addyson, Deedee, and Steven left to right. Addyson is such a babe!Then we went back to the Paul's house and had a much needed car wash- we all chipped in. After car wash fun was over, we played a good game of PIG, I lost because I stink. It's ok though, obviously my hunny still loves me.

After a nap, we all packed into a car and drove up to Idaho falls to join an old mission companion of Deedee's at her huge family barbeque. More dogs, burgers, and shish-kabobs! Delicioso!

We had way too much fun for one day and all crashed at the party. Dave and I are sleeping on each others' arms- we share like that.

No we didn't make this beauty, but we would have claimed it if they would have let us! We all were so excited to have some, but by the time dessert rolled around we were all too stuffed to muster the energy to muscle one more down!

We had a great time watching the fireworks. Addyson sat on my lap the whole time and oo'd and ahh'd with the rest of us. She's so cute! We love this family! Ah- good people.

~*~

We are grateful for our country and the independence we live with every day. The right to make our own decisions is counted in some of our greatest blessings. How lucky we are to live so free.

May we be ever grateful for life, love, and our ability to pursue happiness.

May God continue to bless America!
The land we love.

Summer Lovin!

2009-07-06T11:30:00.000-07:00

SuMmEr fUn!

BaBY tIMe!

So, Dave's older sister Tina and her husband James were one day sitting in a tree

K-I-S-S-I-N-G, and well years later came the baby in the baby carriage!

Here are photos of all the fun!

Dave holding our soon-to-be niece Rebecca, and James is the blue man on the left.

The mom-to-be: Tina Lichtenberg

The witnesses of the birth, Nurse Amber and Tina's Husband James.

Dr. Huggins doing what she does best, with her crew.

Nicholas James Lichtenberg! Born June 30th at 12:52
Weighing 7lbs 7oz, 21 inches long!

The proud daddy having a father-son moment of gazing into each others' eyes for the first time.

Showing baby to mommy! She has no idea what went on beyond her personal veil-

she can't feel a thing! Lucky lady!

Grandma- happy she doesn't have to wait to see her first grandchild.

Dave waiting patiently with Becca.

Amber had the opportunity to be Tina's postpartum nurse for much of her stay. It was nice to have the opportunity to see the birth of Nick and to have even more bonding and growing time with Tina and James. They have a beautiful boy- healthy as ever, with ten toes and ten fingers and all. Amber's boss was there to care for baby during his first breaths of life and we all welcomed him warmly into the world. It is amazing to be a witness to the miracle of life.

ThE PaUL FaMiLy

Jason and Deedee Paul- sometimes the Lord blesses you with wonderful people to walk the path of life with... these are some of those blessings.

Their wiggle worm- Addyson. Adorable!

Steven loves her too, and she loves him back!

She can't get enough of that rootbeer!

She really can't figure out how to drink out of a cup either!

Not Rootbeer. Addyson had a blowout that eeked its way onto my shorts. Eww, poo water!

dAVe'S BiRThDaY

Camping at Pallisades on the border of Idaho and Wyoming

Setting up camp

The view from our campsite

No we did not plan for this picture,

but we sure laughed hard when we saw it on the camera!

Our hike- 4 miles in and 4 miles out.

But the view at the lake was breathtaking!

It thunderstormed and rained buckets on us right as we turned back from the lake- this is the aftermath. A better photo would have been after I got all the dry mud wet again- then you'd really see!

My lOveLy LoViNg HusBAnD

My toes look like an autopsy.

But he tried to be so careful, and besides, it's not about the looks, it's about the memories!

Now he's just goofing off. I love this man!

It says, "David Hill 'Hog Tied' since April 10, 2009"

oUr SuMmEr BaRBeQuEs

Creepy Crawley and Stevie

Michael and Mr. Hill

Landon and our delicious desserts.

We love our barbeques. Every time is another excuse to visit friends and have a little fun. Good food is always a plus, but the company make it all the more enjoyable.

FiSh fRiDaY

So a lady I work with got these beauties from the hatchery- and came to work with a whole butt load of these fish in sacs. I couldn't pass up the opportunity. It was beautiful. I told Dave I had a great big surprise for him when I got home. He wasn't expecting fish!

And yes, that is all the caviar I could squeeze out of them! Ew! I gagged many times this day. Vicki Hill, Dave's mom had to come from Ririe to help me fillet them. I am such the amateur!

Foiled Plans

2009-05-31T18:46:00.000-07:00

Ah, so I guess it could not be avoided for long- Dave and I now have been given a calling, a couples calling, and Dave guessed it right on the button- we're Nursery leaders! AH THE CHILDREN! So we are trying to figure out if it's all a plan to encourage the childless to conceive or if it's convenient to have those who don't have their own kids in the nursery to better help the children focus, but either way I'm not so sure it will help us stick to the Plan. Dave's already showing signs of cracking and our length of time for "just us" might be cut off by a long shot. He's SUCH a softie!
Seriously though, you should see him play with those kids, he's going to be such a good daddy someday... Ahem! I mean, uh. Well, we shall see. Lo que Dios quiere, verdad? But melt my heart, Dave is awesome with kids. They like him more than they like me- no question about it! I had nobody to play with and he was swarmed. His only complaint of the day was that he didn't get any graham crackers or water in his sippy cup at snack time. So basically he fits right in.
It will be great, we just need to learn names and the songs we're now having to re-learn. Old McDonnald hasn't been around for years, but now he's back, and those speckled frogs are so cute! However, being new to the ward and all, I am going to have to get creative so I can get to know the adults in the ward, since now all they will be known to me is so-n-so's mom. We will figure it out. Wish us luck!

Unidentified Gifts

2009-05-14T11:28:00.000-07:00

Uh-oh! Dave and I have received a couple of beautiful gifts and have no idea who they came from! If you were the one to send us one of these, or know who did so, please please please let us know so we can send a great big thank you to the right person! We wouldn't want anyone to be forgotten!

A large glass/crystal flower-shaped serving platter

A standing lamp (white top, black post) from Target

Thank you!

Ah Married Life

2009-05-07T15:00:00.000-07:00

Ok people- I've been hounded by those who check the blogs all the more frequently than I have time to write, so here's my second post in 3 weeks!
Many friends and family ask us how the newlyweds are doing... our answer: fantastic! Here's how: The powerful words of "Yes" or "I do" bring with them increased episodes of uncontrollable laughter and a broader perspective of what this thing called Life is really all about.
The steps to change a name are more extensive than at first glance, but as Tina Wilde wisely counselled, it is all part of the experience. With this in mind, I was probably one of the most patient people at the Idaho DMV where I gave up my last obvious claim to California. As I left the building, I had an Idaho license, license plate, occupation, and residency. Ay! Tough to let go, but worth the deal I got!
Learning to live with the opposite sex has been SO much easier than learning to live with your same gender, as for my perspective. We are learning not to complain about our differences and take proper steps to ensure that the other realize they had a choice of which of the genders to marry and the argument ends with an understanding "you're right".
With life's busy schedules and the comings and goings of having two working students in the house, we find that we subconsciously switch roles. One week I will play housewife, the next week, Dave plays house...husband! And merrily we roll along! The house is semi-set up, but we are still unpacking from the move and unwrapping from the celebrating.
Adjusting to a married student ward has been something we laugh about, and we find that although we don't have kids yet, we can easily get our fill at Sacrament meeting! Some kids make us consider changing our minds, then there are others who help us appreciate birth control so much more! You know the kind!
As far as the old saying that married people only play with married people, married people with kids only play with married people with kids, etc goes, I have to disagree. We spend time with our single friends, our married friends, and our married with kids friends like usual, and I'm even excluding Steven, who doesn't count because he's family! If I did, then the balance would tilt on the single friends side- he visits a lot... mostly for food, or to have some male bonding with Dave when he's left alone and I'm at work.
Steven is having to adjust his visiting habits a bit, and is learning that there are some places he just should not go, and some things he just should not ask about. I believe we've traumatized the poor boy! You married people know how it is. Poor chap! Mua-ha-ha!
Dave has done a fantastic job of slaying our dragons as he puts on his backpack and trucks off to school every day and then works till the evening. He's my wonderful knight in armor. I have also worked myself tired, but find that some of my greatest achievements this month have been changing two purple babies back to pink, directing traffic at the scene of a car pile-up, and running to the aid of a friends' baby after a bad falling spell (no thanks to that Rexburg wind!). Together, Dave and I accomplish the daily task of maintaining the happiness in our little home.

Our marriage is nothing glamourous but it is simple and beautiful. We do not live in a lakeview cottage where birds play and sing. Our flower-edged footpath is nothing more than a gravel and cement walkway. We are not perfect, but we are happy and strive to find the simple pleasures every day. We know they are out there, if we don't see them it's because we have shut our eyes to them. We are grateful for our loved ones who have influenced our lives- who have helped us to become who we are. If it weren't for those who love and support us, marriage and the adjustments we must make to live together would not be so easy.

Together Forever and for Always

2009-04-23T11:01:00.000-07:00

Carnival Cruise

Catalina Island, California

Ensanada, Mexico

Our Beloved and Honored Friends: The Bridesmaids and Groomsmen

2009-01-26T11:11:00.000-08:00

Carly Schneider has been one of Amber's best friends for about 10 years. Through thick and thin, Carly has been a shoulder to cry on, a friend to confide in, and something of a sister to spend wonderful moments with. Together, she and Amber had the opportunity to travel to various places in Europe, attend EFY, and even study at Brigham Young University-Idaho together. The support they each gain from eachother is strength that has weathered many storms, and has spread to those around them. The contagious giggling, the spark for life, and the wonderful stories have been only a small portion of what makes Carly so amazing.

Landon Coburn has been a devoted friend to Dave. As his first roommate at BYUI, Landon has been one to help Dave through the stressful times school can bring. Playing the roll of wing-man, friend, and advisor, Dave has turned to Landon many times for all of what makes someone a true friend. The support and strength that he gives him are not selective. They span across school, work, and play, as well as the support he gives Dave in his choices for the future. He is always good for some relaxation and fun, and has oftentimes invited Dave and Amber for a movie or other activity. Forever a friend, always of assistance, Landon is what you would call Golden.

McKenzie Vonasek is Amber's cousin and friend. The two share a special bond unique to them- they share the same birthday... and grandparents! McKenzie has an incredible sense of humor that will send any overly serious person into rolls of laughter. She is always one to lighten the mood and brighten the day. She is a very talented woman who is finishing her schooling at Paul Mitchell, and has been gracious enough to agree to make Amber beautiful for her wedding day... ah! What a gal! She has such an eye for what is good and is not afriad to share her talents with others. McKenzie is guilty for adding the zest to life, and all who know her will agree she has an ability to touch all who come into her life with her contagious love and humor.

Rhoan Ashby is a famous character in the stories Dave shares of his mission to the Dominican Republic. He served as Dave's companion for 4.5 months, spending 24/7 together involved in such activities as teaching, preaching, serving, sleeping, eating, and goofing off together. Not a story Dave tells about the infamous "Elder Ashby" is told without a twinkle in his eye as he recalls the times of his mission that brought him such joy because of this companion. Rhoan was so eager to befriend Dave's sweetheart, that he decided to write to her as well while serving abroad. These bonds of friendship are not easily severed, and the good times not soon forgotten. Rhoan has engrained himself in a very meaningful part of Dave's history and heart.

Andree Anne Laga has been a wonderful friend and example to Amber. Prior to her marriage to the equally wonderful Benjamin (Whit) Laga, she spent many years as Amber's roommate. Topping Amber's list of favorites, she was more than just a roommate;she is a wonderful example of strength and faith, and serves as an incredible friend who has helped Amber through the difficulties of waiting for Dave, the tears through the nursing program, and the trials of daily life. Showing Amber what it means to love others, she has more than involved her in the details of her life, and now honors her as a bridesmaid. She is as dear as a sister, and has shone her light in Amber's life. She serves others in every way possible and takes little thought of herself. An example of natural beauty and God-like love, Andree Anne is a treasure in Amber and Dave's lives.

Michael Reed covers the pages of Dave's history, you could say they were brothers separated at birth. From preschool to graduation and beyond, Michael has been David's buddy. These three muskateers with the addition of McCallan Chadwick have provided for some colorful stories which are all over the map- spanning from hilarious to frightening. Michael has been such an influence on Dave and has had his hand in forming Dave into the great man he is today. Michael is a dedicated person, and ever available for a great laugh or deep insights. He made it important to him to get to know Amber as well, and has formed a great friendship full of sass and sarcasm, not to forget the kindness and love with her as well. He is ever eager and willing to serve others and share his wisdom and love to all who stand in need.

Alisha Bennett has been Amber's saving grace many times throughout her life. How perfectly God planned for her to be Amber's sister. She may be younger, but she is definitely the example here- full of love and compassion and sweet service. Alisha has ever been the patient and thoughtful one. The years have brought the two closer as life deals out it's experiences. She holds a strength and a comfort that are unmatched. She really knows what it means to love like you've never been hurt, sing like no one is listening, and dance as though no one is watching. She is a pillar of strength for Amber which has offered its support during many storms throughout the years. She posesses a smile that is irresistable and playful, she is always one to influence others for good with her amiable personality and love. She is truly a beautiful person, inside and out.

Josh Jones is Dave's friend and employer. Home-grown in the same rich soil, the two of them make quite the dynamic duo. He is very versatile, with a span of knowledge that allows him to take on many roles: from boss, to co-worker, to doctor, and friend. Josh is very easy to get along with, and never misses an opportunity to befriend someone new. He is an example and a strength to Dave and Amber. He pursues his interests outside of work and school, and is always including those around him so that they too can cultivate new talents and share exciting experiences. Josh is one who is always thinking of others, and is never hesitant to lend a hand. He really is a go-getter, and a source of laughter and inspiration. Those who know Josh are truly blessed to have such a great friend.

Renee Anne Lemire is a wonderful artist who has painted the color in Amber's life. With this final link, Amber, Andree Anne, and Renee have claimed themselves triplets. Her sweetness and friendliness have been what Amber has treasured for years. This spunky sweet sister has also taken Dave into her life and cultivated friendships with him, and has been even before they officially met. Renee is a very active young woman, who loves to play in the beautiful outdoors, and has introduced Amber to many great activities, such as rafting, hiking, and bridge jumping. Her love for others is an example that has been of great benefit to Amber. Because of Renee, Amber's circle of friends has grown immensly and thanks to her, Amber has been able to know many great people. Renee Anne is a beautiful, lovely, and exemplary woman, a cherished friend.

Gift Registry

2008-12-18T11:54:00.000-08:00

We have registered for gifts:

Bed Bath & Beyond

Target

Our Love

2008-12-17T16:31:00.000-08:00

Engagement Pictures

2008-12-17T16:29:00.000-08:00

Arn't we
Cute!

Engagement photos continued

2008-12-17T16:18:00.000-08:00

About us...

2008-12-06T12:39:00.000-08:00

Perhaps some of you would like to know "Our Story".

We were both attending Brigham Young University- Idaho during the Fall of 2005. Dave and I were placed in the same Family Home Evening group through church at school. I was assigned to be a leader of the group a.k.a. "mom" and so it was my job to encourage members of the group to attend and participate, plan the lessons and activities, and ensure that opportunities for friendships were available.
Dave was often M.I.A for these Monday night gatherings, and I assumed he was a slacker. In reality, Dave often went to be with his real family in Ririe (a town near Rexburg). In my ignorance, I made it my goal to re-activate this wayward soul.
One of Dave's roommates offered to take me to '(Spanish) Stadium Singing' one October Sunday night. In an attempt to make it a group outing, I invited all of the other roommates, and by divine intervention- Dave agreed to go, despite the fact that he didn't sing, didn't speak Spanish (back then), and was probably irritated at my constant invitations to F.H.E. I shared my hymnal with him on that cold night, since it was me who invited him. My origional "date" stood behind us while we belted out the hymns in Spanish as best we could, I am sure he wasn't thrilled at the turn-out of the night.
After a few songs, my hand had been through enough of the Idaho chill and so it took it's turn for the pocket time. My left hand took its place, while my right went to a pocket... again by divine intervention, it went straight to the sweater pocket being worn by Dave! Wow! I couldn't remove it without being extremely awkward, but all I could think was, "Hand! What on EARTH are you doing in there?!" -Honest!
Until this time, Dave and I had never thought twice about being interested in eachother. I had never looked at him in that light, besides, he was just an inactive FHE brother. At that moment, however, Dave slipped his right hand, which was previously perched on the side of his pocket, towards the middle, ever so slowly. His fingers explored mine, and our hands fit snugly together. We looked at eachother and both shrugged as if to say, "Well, alright!" and that was the beginning.
The rest of the story is that we dated until he went on his mission in September 2006- not without our ups and downs, wrote letters all the way through to the end- despite much opposition, and still felt those strong bonds of love when we were reunited again, thus with the affirmation from the Lord, the blessing from our parents, we're engaged to be married for eternity!
That's my side of the story- and I'm sticking to it!

Engagement!

2008-11-28T16:22:00.000-08:00

So Dave has asked the Big Daddy for Amber's hand in marriage, and he said yes- the next step was to ask Amber for permission, and of course, he wasn't denied. It's official as of November 23rd! Yay!

So here's the plan:

The temple wedding will be on April 10th 2009 in Oakland- stay tuned for the official invitations. The first reception will take place in San Luis Obispo on the 11th of April, then an Open House in Ririe, Idaho on the 18th.

We're in need of addresses, so please send them so we can send you an invitation!

Thanks to all the love and support!
Dave and Amber